[Jerryy221]

Hello, just a teenage boy who needs some advice. So 2 weeks ago ive started talking to a girl, ive known her for a while but we never really conversed, ive seen her at parties and such but nothing more than that. By talking i do not mean flirting, but we do get together very very well, like a cheech and chong relationship. We always have short little flirts here and there but nothing serious, again weve never had an official date. The thing is she cant get over this fuckboy! Over the past 3 weeks shes found out this boy has kissed other girls recently, sent other girls nudes recently, and they even went on a date and the guy turned her up! Well he went, said hi to her then left to go smoke weed with his friends! Now any other girl wouldnt even give this shit bag a 2nd chance, but for some reason she tells me how much she wants to try with him, kiss him and be with him! Like wtf!!! I mean i dont like this girl but she definitly is special and definitly is someone i can see myself starting a serious relationship with! So what do i do? And please no ” Shes not worth your time give up” becauzebi honestly love talking to her! ):

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Stop focusing on this other guy and shift the spotlight onto you. 😉 Ask her out on a date to do something really fun. If she sees you as a guy who wants to date her, she may stop focusing on this other guy, too! 🙂 If every time you talk to her, you enable the conversations about this other guy, you’ll become part of the problem and sink deep into the friend zone. What you want to do is get her to see you as a potential date and the best way to do that is to act like one. Forget him. Focus on you!

[Sundus]

Is she ignoring you? Then you should start talking to other girls, too. She should know that you have many other options. Only when she feels afraid of losing you will she leave this ‘fuckboy’ and understand your true value.
Anyway, just by being a gentleman, you will be sitting around waiting for marriage for the rest of your life. Be a little ‘spicy’ and make her feel that you are not a ‘backup option’ or a spare person she can come crying to whenever she wants.
AskApril has also given expert advice that if you were her, an emotional dumping ground and listening to her constant drama, then you will be buried in the ‘friend zone’ forever, and she will never feel romantically attracted to you.

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