[kirjava15]

Hi April,

I am very interested in one of my coworkers. (We work in different departments and no hierarchy issues come between us, and I am in a temporary position so I don’t think working for the same company is going to be a problem.) Both of us are single, mid-20s. Over the past few months, we typically run into each other 2-3 times per week around the building and have a short chat. I am generally considered to be a conventionally attractive girl, however I am very shy and socially awkward. He is clearly the same way and I would be surprised if he has much experience with girls. I have picked up on cues from his body language and details in our conversations that suggest he might be interested in me too, but I cannot be certain. Even if I was certain, I would never have the courage to suggest spending time together away from work.

I want to find a subtle way to show him that I like him. I’m not sure what to do, but I have never met a guy before that sparked my interest so much and not knowing his opinion of me is driving me crazy!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

One of the basics of dating successfully, is learning how to flirt with men. 😎 This isn’t just about you — it’s about giving [i]them[/i] the signal that you’re interested so that if they are, too, they can chase after you with better odds of scoring a date. Try these simple steps: Give him your best smile when you see him. Turn back after you’ve left, and smile at him as you walk away. Compliment him in ways that suggest you’re interested — for instance, not just telling him that you like his jacket, but telling him he’s got great taste. The latter is more about him than his clothing. Or tell him how hot he looks or how great he smells. That’s the way you’ll get him to know that you’re interested. 😉

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