[LostinKansas]

I am wondering if there is a way to fix my needing to much reassurance before my pre-existing relationship falls apart or is it to late? My boyfriend pointed out last night that i need reassurance a lot and that i wasn’t always like that. he tells me he loves me and I believe him and he does little things that mean so very much to me and I enjoy his company and love him just as deeply. I feel i should add that we haven’t been sexually active in 4 weeks, which some some parts if was girl issues and other he says not good timing but i can help that feeling that it might be me, Is there a way to fix at least my side before it all goes to the wayside or have I already lost?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If you haven’t had sex in four weeks, what are you waiting for? 😎 That’s an easy fix!!

And if you’re looking for reassurance too often, simply stop doing it. This is all about your ability to modify your own behavior, which requires recognizing it, and then changing it. This isn’t that complicated, but it does require the desire to make a change and the ability to execute changes.

If you have any further questions, let me know.

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[LostinKansas]

the sex I go for every time i see him but he puts a nix on it, whether to many people in the house, or being sleepy.. we did finally have sex again last weekend, I have high hopes for this weekend as well but we will see.. thank you for the advice it is sound and I believe you are right I have been working on that and not asking or seeming that i care as much as I was before, though i didn’t notice til he said something anyways, thank you, It did seem to fix the problem a bit but I am still on the fence it might still have been to little to late.. but I am ever hopeful.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Check out a book I wrote for people who want to get the X back in their sex lives: [url]https://askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/romantic-date-ideas.html[/url]. For $8.95, it’s a great investment in what may make a huge change in your life. 😉 Especially if you’re ready to be proactive and make positive changes, which it sounds like you are. 😀

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