[vatosan]

Well I recently broke up with my ex a few days ago and I want her back. We only dated for a few weeks and they were kind of rough, we fought 3 times, but she is someone really special. She said she needed time for her. I tried to win her back, I brought her flowers and everything, i apologized and i asked her for another chance but she said she was still unsure. i didn’t want to force her to be with me so i let it be. i told her i wasnt going to give up on trying to get her and she said i know you wont. many of my friends talked to her and she said she just wants to be single right now. I have read many articles online talking about doing “no contact” and I think this is the only way to win her back by making her miss me. The only problem with no contact is that we go to the same college and we have a lot of mutual friends. I have one class with her so she is always going to see me because we sit near each other. Also whenever I hang out with my friends she is going to be there to. So my question is how do I make her miss me with the “no contact” if we are going to see each other at least 3 times a week. Should I try to sit far from her? Avoid trying to see her? I really want her back and I feel no contact is the best way to do that and get over her as well. i know she still has feelings for me, i feel like she has to miss me in order to want to be with me again.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

No contact on it’s own is not nearly as effective as no contact while living your life to the fullest while doing so! If you’re having a great life with or without her, you’re going to be much more attractive to her — and other women. I don’t mean to tell you that living well is the best revenge, because it just might be what hooks her back in, but if it doesn’t, it’s not a bad path to walk! 😉

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀

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