[Levy63]

Currently in college and I met this cute guy in my summer trigonometry class. We’d always say hi to each other when spotted but when fall semester started, I didn’t see him at all so I assumed he left the university. Almost 3 weeks ago, I saw him at a party and decided to make conversation. He remembered me and we hit it off great. We made great convo, danced together, smiled a lot and made plenty of eye contact, overall felt a lot of chemistry. We exchanged snapchats and he said to let him know whenever I wanna hang out/have a smoke session. That night, he was being nice and offered a smoke session to my friends and I back at his place but it never really happened cause a drunk girl friend of his needed to be walked home but I noticed he was being really physically affectionate with her. One of his friends said he’s probably gonna make out with her but I never really knew for sure. Two weeks later, I snapchat him while I was bored at a party and we snapchatted each other for for awhile; nothing suggestive, just regular friendly/funny things. I snapchat him again yesterday after getting stuck in NYC from missing my bus to get home and he said “I wouldn’t want you to get stranded” . Them today, I get a notification from snap saying he was typing a message to me but I never got a message. I wanna ask to hang out with him on Friday but I’m not sure whether he likes me as a friend or more than that cause he’s a very nice, social person. Part of me feels like he wants something more, part of me thinks he’s just being really friendly.

[AskApril Masini]

Wait. See if he makes the first move — by not making it yourself. I know you like him and you’re anxious for him to ask you out, but unless you give him the space to do so, you won’t know if he likes you that much or not. The problem with you asking him out first is that if he accepts and you have a good time, you may find yourself right back in this situation, wondering why he isn’t being more assertive about connecting with you. I know it’s tough, but wait and let him make the first move. And if he doesn’t, move on. You can flirt with him when you see him, to let him know you’re receptive — and to give him something to chase after, but let him be the one to ask you out so you’ll really know for sure where he stands. 😉

[nalettor]

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[AskApril Masini]

Interesting.

[Sally]

This kind of situation feels fun and confusing at the same time. You’ve got chemistry with him, but he also seems like one of those social, flirty guys who’s warm with everyone. That doesn’t mean he’s not into you it just means you can’t read him the usual way.

The thing with the girl he was affectionate with… that would’ve made me pause too. It doesn’t scream “he’s taken,” but it does say he’s not locked in on anyone right now.
Honestly, the only way you’ll know is by seeing how he acts one-on-one. Ask him to hang out Friday in a super casual way. If he says yes and actually follows through, that usually tells you more than any snap ever will.

And if he’s only friendly energy, you’ll feel that pretty fast. No need to overthink it. Just take it slow and see what he does next.

[Tara]

If a guy is genuinely interested, he doesn’t flirt with you one night, then get handsy with another girl, then communicate in half-hearted Snapchat crumbs. He’s keeping you warm as an option, not choosing you as a priority. The “typing but not sending” move isn’t romantic suspense; it’s indecision or distraction. You’re reading signals that aren’t signals; he’s just a sociable guy who enjoys attention and keeps multiple doors open. If you want to hang out with him, ask him. But stop pretending this is some deep mutual chemistry. You’re the one taking all the initiative. He’s the one giving you just enough engagement to keep you guessing.

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