You’re asking me for legal advice, and I can only give you relationship advice! What I suggest is that you go to the court where you filed your legal separation papers, and ask for help. There is a way to get divorced legally if your husband is not available to be served with papers, but you have to get the details from an attorney or a court clerk.
As for the IRS, they have an 800 number that you can call and ask them for their advice. You can look up IRS on the internet or in the phone book and find that number.
I hope that helps. Good luck!!
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