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I dated this guy who was three years older than me in january for two months. I decided to break it off because i had too much things going on in my life and i couldn’t prioritize him. however after the breakup i constantly missed him and wanted him back. I texted him before apologizing for breaking up with him so suddenly and he responded saying that even though we couldn’t make it work now, he hopes that we look forward to it in the future and that we never know what might happen. His responses to my texts decreased and one day i told him that i wanted him back. However, he said he couldnt come back. Then a few days after i found out through instagram that he had gotten a new girlfriend. In the past when we first started dating i asked him when his most recent girlfriend was and he said a month ago. It made me felt like i was a rebound. I thought that i should just move on with my life but my friend and i went to have dinner one day and he works there. I thought that it didn’t matter and that it will just be a waiter and customer relationship. But when he saw me he looks so surprised but also had a big smile. He took us to the back where there were booths and even gave us free drinks. Occassionally i find him looking at me. His actions in person is really different than how he acted through facebook. I had unfriended him on facebook and snapchat because i wanted to forget about him. But when i added him back he didnt accept my requests. I still have feelings for him and want him back. What should i do?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Start eating all your meals at that restaurant!! 😆 Seriously — it sounds like it’s a great way to see him, flirt with him and give him a chance to reconnect with you and see what he’s missing. If you do that and get the cold shoulder, eventually, then you can move on. But… this may be just the “in” you need to let him know how great you are in person. 🙂

[Saman]

Ask April was right about going to that restaurant again and again, but here I will also say that when you go there, go as if you came to buy that restaurant, not to ask for it back. Look sexy, feel confident, go with one of your “hot” friends, laugh with her, enjoy yourself, and completely ignore this guy. When he feels that your life is spicier without him, then his smile will be a little “nervous”. If he gives a cold response even after going again and again, then move on.

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