Sorry if you find mistakes. I am a french man living in Quebec Canada. I need help !!!!!!.
Here is my story…
I was married for 17 years and 6 years ago I decided to divorce…I decided to be a single man for 5 years and it was my choice because I feel you can’t just start a new relationship with another person after so many years.
9 months ago, I decided to use a dating site to help me find my LEGO block. I guess I was lucky because I found a sole mate. Everything clicked like 2 LEGO blocks. We talked for hours on the phone before we met and once we did all was even better.
She has a 6 year old daughter and she left the dad 6 months before we started. I thought it was a short time but she told me that she was happy since he wasn’t in her life anymore…One of the problem is that she always talks about him and when he found out I was with his EX he started making trouble to a point that he is bashing me to her and his familly.
But the worst thing for me and this is why I would like an opinion.
She is 41 and I found out that between the age of 18 to 24 she was a stripper and a prostitute. I never juge anyone but I can say that it rocked my inside even though she sais that it was a long time ago. When I met her she cleaned houses and she seemed to have good values and she said that she was a prostitute because she was young and had no money.
I told her that it was ok as long as she wasn’t in that type of bizz no more. The first time I spent a week-end at her house, I asked her if I could use her PC so that I could look at my emails. I saw on her PC that she visits porn sites but especially the ORGY ones. I talked about it with her and she said it was nothing. Since then weird things started to happen.
Everytime I am at her house, men call and ask to talk to her yet she always telles me that she doesn’t know them even though it happens every week. 3 months ago I moved in to her house. we split bills because I earn more than her so I help pay her bills. Every month she gets her cell phone bill and she only uses her cellphone during the day but her cell never rings once she is at home or on week-ends. But when we get the bills we have to pay an amount that seems not normal. I have a Iphone and one day I found another pair of Iphone headsets. She has no iphone. Another time there was an ashtrey with 3 cigarette butts that are of another brand I use.
She always seem to have her head in the clouds and she often has mood swings and everytime men call she comes up with a story and becomes very anxious. She always hides her cell phone even though she always tells me that she only has one in case of an emergency…
I also find that she acts and tells me what men love to hear and with her background it is easy to understand that it’s easy for her to charm me even if she says that she left that world a very long time ago.
Something weird happens every week and she does her best to tell me that she is not responsable and i love her, but at the same time i always have that strange feeling in my guts that says to me that she is not who she is.
I don’t know what to do
