There is no reason in the world for your boyfriend to have invited you to move in with he and his mother, when he’s lost his job and is living with his mom until he gets back on his feet. 😯 His focus seems to be in the right place — getting work and getting his own place. It’s understandable that he’s uncomfortable having sex with you in his mother’s house — because frankly, you shouldn’t be living there.
I’m sorry if this comes across as harsh, but your question about how to get your sex life back on track seems entirely inappropriate given the elephant in the room which is that you moved into his mother’s house. If the two of you were married, or even engaged, and had fallen on hard times, I would understand the situation, but since you quit your job to move into his mom’s house, I’m thinking you need to rearrange your priorities.
My advice is that you move out and get a job and give him the space to get one, too — and his own apartment. It’s very hard for men to want serious relationships when they don’t have their own lives in order. He’s getting his act together — now it’s your turn! 😉
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