[beachxgirl718]

so me and this guy always talk about hooking up, but we never have. recently I told him that I don’t just wanna f***, I wanna hang out. he told me that was fine and I said “really?” and he said “yeah its gonna be hard for me cause your sexy but ill control myself the first few times lol” so I said “lol thanks I appreciate it, I’m just not like that you know.” and he said “i honestly wasn’t expecting anything like that at first, maybe just hookup.” but then the other night I was drunk and asked if he wanted to meet up and told him id give him a blow job. we met up and we started hooking up, and he was like “I’m so hard, will you give me head?” and I said “no.” well he was being an ass then and was pissed off. so the next day I apologized and I asked if he would give me another chance and he said “im good, stop texting me its annoying.” and then he told me “u lost your chance, I don’t wanna hang out anymore what don’t you get” and then I asked “is it because you’re not attracted to me, or is it because I wasted your time?” and he hasn’t answered, and he’s been ignoring me. so I waited a week and asked him if he wanted to hang out thurs night and he said “no” so I said “why not” and he said “i don’t wanna hookup with you” and I said “oh, why not?” he said “i just dont want to” so I said “well if you don’t wanna hookup with me anymore because I messed up id feel better, but you make me feel like you never wanted to hookup at all” and he said “idk” so I said “will you give me a chance in the future” and he said “we’ll see” so I said “can you at least tell me if you’re attracted to me or not” and he didn’t answer. meanwhile he told me awhile ago that he wouldnt be talking to be if he didnt think i was hott. so a few days ago we had this convo:

6:36pm
are you just gonna keep ignoring me?
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?6:39pm
leave me alone lol
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6:39pm
lol you suck
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6:39pm
suck me
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6:40pm
yeahh right you don’t want it
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6:41pm
i think I do
if its good il prob hit you up to f***
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6:43pm
so then you should hit me up
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6:43pm
u think so?

?6:50pm
yes
i do think so
ive been trying
you never hit me up anymore, so you should
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6:52pm
il hit you up tn if you promise to make up for lasttime and video chat with me now
my cocks out
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6:54pm
i will make up for last time
im not video chatting. I hate it
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6:54pm
no deal
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6:55pm
fine
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6:56pm
c ya
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6:56pm
byeee
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6:57pm
dnt message me anymore
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6:57pm
okay
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6:58pm
n remove me as a friend
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6:58pm
? you’re being stupid. I’m not gonna hit you up anymore. I get that you don’t wanna hookup
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6:59pm
i wuda tn
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6:59pm
well so would i, but you don’t wanna unless I video chat
so forget it
im done trying
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6:59pm
good
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6:59pm
ok
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7:00pm
ur mistake
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7:00pm
no its yours
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7:00pm
mine?
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7:00pm
yes
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7:00pm
ul never get a d*** like this
ever
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7:01pm
i believe you
listen I was willing to do whatever, but you are not willing unless I video chat
so basically I wanna hookup, you dont. so its fine. no worries
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7:02pm
ur afriad to video chat
wen I said my cocks out
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7:02pm
it just doesn’t make me feel comfortable
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7:02pm
u wudnt touch it last time
so I think your afriad of it
all good
bye
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7:03pm
lol I’m not afraid of your d***
i just don’t like video chatting, and last time I was drunk and stupid. I wouldn’t keep hitting you up if I was afraid of your d***
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7:04pm
well you made a mistake last time your making another
ur not getting a 3rd chance bye
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7:04pm
okay that’s fine

can you please answer all of these? did he ever wanna hookup with me? do you think that he just didn’t think I was hott and hes not attracted to me? why didnt he answer me when i asked if he was attracted to me? do you think he doesnt wanna hookup anymore because he doesnt think im hott or because he thinks im a “waste of time”
i was just looking for casual fun, im not looking for a relationship by the way.

can you please answer all of these?
-did he ever wanna hookup with me?
-do you think that he just didn’t think I was hott and he’s not attracted to me?
-why didn’t he answer me when I asked if he was attracted to me?
-do you think I was just a waste of time to him and he doesnt wanna hookup anymore because he didnt get it the first time? even though im telling him i will do it the next time.

i know this sounds stupid, if you could just answer the questions id be very greatful. thanks so much!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Please stop posting the same thing multiple times. I want to help you — but if you post the same thing in different places over and over, you’re not going to get the best help! Plus — it’s confusing. As I’ve told you before, please combine your posts in the same place and if you have news on a subject or want further advice, just submit your new questions on the same thread! 😀

[beachxgirl718]

How do I combine my posts in the same place? Do I add on to the original post I sent or do I reply with an update. I was confused so I just posted a new thread

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Cut and paste all your various posts and attach them in chronological order to your original post on this topic. That way everyone who’s reading can give you the best answers possible because they’ve seen your entire problem in one place. 😀 Thanks for that. 😉

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