You have a couple of problems — each with various solutions, so let me pose some for you here:
1. You want a boyfriend. The best way to find a boyfriend is to figure out what you want, and if you want someone to date in real life, and to marry, then it’s important to find someone who is actually close enough for you to do these things with. If you choose someone who is so far away you can’t date, let alone marry, sadly, you’ve chosen someone who is incompatible with you. So if you want a boyfriend and marriage, choose someone who can give that to you, and to whom you can give that to him!
2. You’ve got financial challenges. There comes a time in everyone’s life when they want something they can’t afford. There are lots of ways to deal with this problem. One is to find something different that you can afford. Another is to try to make more money by changing careers, taking a second job or doing something entrepreneurial. Or, you can simply save up until you can afford what you want. However, your boyfriend in Ohio isn’t willing to wait for you, so in this case, that isn’t going to work.
3. You have a dream that is difficult to make come true. This happens to lots of people, and they can either reconsider the dream or find ways to make it come true. In this case, your boyfriend can try to come to you instead of you going to him. Or you can both work towards funding one of you traveling to the other. Or, as he suggested, you can keep the dream of finding true love — only realize it’s not going to be with him because of the distance and your finances.
I hope that helps!
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