[Scarlet]

I’ve been dating a man for 7 months. We are both in our 40’s. I am divorced with one child. He has never been married but has a child from a previous relationship. I have my child full time. He has his child every other Saturday night. Our pattern has been to have Friday night date night and see each other Saturdays if he does not have his son. We have been communicating at least every few days. He refuses to text which would greatly increase communication, so we mostly email. We do talk on the phone occasionally, but I am the one who usually calls him because he says he never knows when my child is with me. I know he’s not married because I have spent a lot of time at his house. After 4 months of dating he told me he’s in love with me and then, after that, we’ve been intimate. We had our usual Friday night date last weekend which went fine and he had his son the next day. He mentioned this Friday night and it is my understanding that we have a date. But I haven’t heard from him since he brought me home last Friday night! 5 days! I don’t think we’ve been this long without communication since our first date. Do you suppose he’s just vanished after 7 months??? Since tomorrow is Friday-eve, I’m hesitant to contact him for fear of looking like I’m fishing for a date. What, if anything, should I do??? Thanks!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You have a lot of posts on this forum, and it’s much easier for me and everyone else here if you keep your posts on one string. That way, we can all see your history in one place and all of us who want to help you can answer you more comprehensively! 😀 So re-post this as a “reply” to the first string of posts your started here. I’ll look out for that re-post and answer you there. 😉

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[Scarlet]

Sure, of course, I appreciate all the help I can get 🙂. I’m not sure which one was first though and only know the password for one other. Is there a particular one you want me to reply to? I hope it’s the one where I know the password 🙂

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You only have one account here, and one password for username [b]Scarlet[/b]. I’m not sure why you think you have two. Did you create an account besides “Scarlet”?

It appears that you started your first string of posts in February 2012, for “Scarlet”. Please go back to that string of posts, and create a new “reply” to the last one there. That keeps all your questions in one place. 😉 I’ll answer your questions there, as soon as you do that! 🙂

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