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What is he asking me? What does he want me to say?
What is he asking me? What does he want me to say?
So night before last after a month of texting (we live 2 hrs away from each other and met at where my aunt lives, both visitors for an event) he askes me what do I want out of him? then he said just curious to your answer and I will answer appropriatly. So I said idk cause I didn’t know what he was asking. He went on to tell me what he sees in me and what he sees in him (broken and bitter) and then when I didn’t answer right away he said what do you think now. I told hiim what I saw in him and that it was okay to be broken and bitter. I told him I was too, coming off a 5 year relationship etc. then he told me about that he has been single since his x left him and lots of girls have come and gone. I said I’m not going to lie that I do like him and like talking to him and I am not sure what he is asking me. He said i am not asking you anything. Just don’t bet on me, I don’t like hurting people and I suck at this stuff but I do enjoy your messages. But thing is he did ask me something, what I want out of him, so I am confused. Said he was moving and I said where and he said that is 4 another time nighty night. I said do you not want me to text you anymore, if it is making you uncomfortable I will stop and he said no not uncomfortable with it.

So what is he asking me? Does he like me? Is he possibly moving closer and wants to know if I am interested in him? If he didn’t want to continue with what we have why did he have this long convo with me? Why when I said idk didn’t he say I don’t like hurting people but I am not interested in anything right now??? HELP….

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Unfortunately, what he’s asking you is if you will put up with someone who is broken, bitter, and not a great relationship bet! 😕

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