[Confused121]

I met this woman a week ago at a mutual friend’s bday party. The birthday girl is the one who introduced us and she told me I had to meet her because she saw me and really wanted to talk to me. So we conversated and things were great, I got her number and we had some very nice conversations over the weekend. I am a busy person with my job and she is as well with her jobs on top of going to Law School. I understand that and havr been very respectful with the situation. Well, she calls me Saturday afternoon and leave me this lengthy message stating how great and handsome i am and how she would love to get to kno me better and spend time with me but she has things going ob in her life that are quote “chaotic, severe, and just overall bad” and sge doesnt want to put me in a situation for me or her to get hurt or have me in danger, so she thinks its best we limit our conversatuons at this point. She refuses to say it is me and that if things wetent not the way they are sge would be all about me. I spoke with and she said she is really sorry but she cant tell me wats going on but when things get better sge will definitely will tell me and she doesnt by any means say this is goodbye. I told her I was dissapointed but it is wat it is. She then proceeded to ask about my day and and how my night was. I think I kno wats going on here but Im asking anyway. What is your take on this and what should i do next??

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

[quote]….things going ob in her life that are quote “chaotic, severe, and just overall bad” and sge doesnt want to put me in a situation for me or her to get hurt or have me in danger, so she thinks its best we limit our conversatuons at this point…[/quote]

Check, please!

When a woman tells you that if you get involved with her, the two of you may be in danger, that’s your cue to leave. There are many fish in the sea and you do not (repeat: [i]do not)[/i] need a fish that may lead you into danger.

Don’t contact her any more. Don’t take her calls any more. Let it go. If she’s telling you the truth, then she’s dangerous by association with danger. If she’s not telling you the truth, you’re in for major drama if you stick around.

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[Confused121]

Appreciate it

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

You bet! 😀 😀

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