[amartin]

I’ve been dating this boy on and off for 3 years. He lost his virginity to me. We broke up for 7 months in that duration he slept with 2 other girls. He still keeps making comments on how he would like to “see” what else is out there. On one occasion i went through his phone and found that he asked a girl out on a date. I was destroyed he didnt see why i was so mad about it. On another occasion he got drunk at a friends house. He smacked me 3 times across the face because i wouldnt let him drive my car drunk. Friday we went to an amusement park with a few friends when 4 girls asked us for a ride home because they were stranded. I had to sit on his lap the whole way to drop them off. In the car he was flirting hard with all of them. Well a day later I went through his phone again because he started acting odd. I found a number he was texting call the person cutie and then another message saying he thought they were all cute but her phone was the only phone he could slip his number into. Well he blamed the whole ordeal on me and what not. he said the other girl never texted back and i find that hard to be true seeing as he didnt get her number she only had his? After i made him delete it he’s been acting weird again. I dont know what to do. Help?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You don’t know what to do? 😯 Your off and on boyfriend is blatantly looking for other women and he smacked you in the face three times. Seriously?

When you get to the point when a man smacks you across the face — you’re in the wrong place with the wrong person. And that’s for starters. If you have to demand he erase flirtatious texts to other women from his phone, you’ve turned into a policewoman, not a girlfriend. You should break up with him and look for a man to date who wants to date you and only you.

You deserve more than what you have — so go get it!

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