[surreal]

Hi April .. hoping u wud be able to suggest an appropriate solution..

Scenario:
I m currently working in a MNC and everything was just going fine .. until i saw this girl .. she`s beautiful and i think i really like her but the problem is that she works in a different department and i havnt really got a chance to speak with her or strike up a conversation.. nor i m able to think of way to tlk with reason, some sense…. and i think she has noticed me .. but u cannt really say wat`s going inside a girl`s mind 😉 .. anyways i was thinking that i shud just go to her and say hi and introduce me and ask her for coffee/ movie .. anything .. but i fear that this might not wrk i mean she doesnt knw me.. to her i m lik a stranger thn how can she say yes.. and wat if she already has a boyfrnd and i really dont want to spoil my chances..
cud u suggest something feasible?.. btw my age is 21 and hers also wud the same ..

[womandating]

well just be yourself.
and read some dating tips.
it really can help. 🙂
goodluck.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You just need a little confidence and some experience with women and you’re going to be fine. Your instinct is correct — if you go up to her and introduce yourself, that’s the first step! Making conversation is next. If you don’t have anything in common (you actually work in the same place, so that’s a start, and you’re the same age, so you may have other things in common, too), you can compliment her on something. Using your own style, you can tell her you’ve noticed her because she’s very pretty and there’s something about the way she walks (whatever it is) that caught your eye and has kept your interest and you just wanted to get to know her a little. See what she says — you don’t have to control the conversation — you can let it flow and see if and how she responds. Then ask her if she’d like to have a drink (coffee, wine, whatever) after work on Tuesday — pick a specific time and date and place to pick her up or meet.

I hope that helps. Let me know how it goes! And please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].

[surreal]

well thnx for advice ..
lets see how it goes ..
any further advice welcomed

[surreal]

wel thnx ..
lets see how it goes ,.
but btw she is the first girl to whom i think i hav lost out my confidence.. usually it never happens though
pray for me 😛

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’m not sure why you’re looking for prayers. 😯 This is simple. You have to man up and ask her out! 😉

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