[phenghuang]

Hello, I like your advice very much.

I have a question.

I’m married and in my late forty. but maybe look younger. Sometime I would met some guy on my way to work or the place I frequent visited. These guy are young and handsome,They ( he ) would look at me, and I would look back at him, I did not smile at them,being married woman, nor I flirting with them. But after sometime they started show unhappy face or angry when I saw them, and later they would try to avoid me or totally disappear. Things always turned out like that, Why ? Could we just be stanger but friendly to each other ? It’s so awful , sometime hurting to see people treat you like this.

What should I do in these kind of situation ? Couldn’t we be friend ? I did not even I have chance to know them. 🙁

Thank you for your advice.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

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[phenghuang]

Thank you for your reply.

Actually my question was totally different to the previous post. And I don’t know how to re-post the previous post.

It’s just that I was frustrated that people I liked treated me like that. Any advice ?

Every time I met some handsome guy who was a stranger, regularly, I always could predict the ending part. They would first happy to see me but at the end, I seemed to become their enemy. They did not like to see me at all after a few month and angry. Why ?

Did I offend them ?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Even though you think your question is totally different, it’s still much better for me (and everyone else here) to see your history in one place. You may not realize that there’s a through line, and that can help me help you. 🙂

Just retype (or copy and paste) these questions your’e asking here — as a “reply” to the last post on the prior string you created. If you need more help, here it is: Go to the original string of posts you created. On the very last post (whether it’s yours, mine or someone else’s), click on “Post a reply” and in the box that allows you to post a reply, re-type or paste your current questions there.

I’ll answer them there as soon as you do that! 😀

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[phenghuang]

This is the previous post.

I have a question. I had met this young handsome guy on my way to work, we would meet one or twice a week, but we did not know each other. I had a big crash, but I’m married with kids. I would just glance at him when he passed by, later I noticed that he had some responds, when I looked at him, he would be very happy, but when I did not, he seem very unhappy.

This was going on for months, I was waiting for him to approach me then I could tell him I was married. But he did not do anything. I thought that meant he did not interest at me. But still I liked him so much I need to tell him. So one day I wrote a letter and waited for him, when I passed the letter to him, he refused to take it. I was shock. I did not understand why he behaved this way.

Why he did not take my letter ?

And later he acted the same way again, when I looked at him, he was happy, when not, he was so bad mood. Does that mean he just enjoyed somebody admiring him but not really bother who am I ? Should I do anything, because I did not want to hurt him.

He is not that young, around late twenty or thirty plus, so he is mature and would not be childish, right ?

I am forty plus, but my look is much younger, still attract man especially young man to stare at me even when I was with my kids, is it because I look motherly or what. I thought only young girl will attract men ? Could you explain why ?

Thank you.
phenghuang

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Thank you for re-posting your question. You’ll find that I’ve answered it on the original string of posts! 🙂

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