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What’s with him?

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    Anonymous
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    There’s this guy I’ve never spoken to before (only during work when he needed help w/ the printer) who I had a class with who stared a lot during it. He’s quiet and doesn’t talk much when I see him at school but I know he is different outside it (i have sources). Well now I have a class, and next door is his class, and he sat near the door that opens ito his class, and it has a window and he would look behind to look at me (he saw me through that window so he looked back a lot at me). He seems nervous around me, how do i know? just something about the way he acts i guess that tells me so. If he sees me and he seems nervous and he avoids going to the area where i’M at, or he walks fast by me, always makes eye contact or tries to avoid it, either way. But i want to know, if a guy doesn’t talk to you how is it he is so nervous around you? What is it I’m doing that makes him nervous, and why is he sometimes avoiding me (or real nervous), and other times has the balls to stare as much and as long (when I catch him) as he does? How does that work? Idk, I would like some opinions and answers. Thanks.

    #18575
    Tonio
    Member #39,648

    From my personal experience, I can conclude that this guy would like to get to know you better. Most likely he just doesn’t know how to approach you, or he is afraid that you will reject him. Believe me, I’ve been in this guy’s shoes before. It’s very possible that he hasn’t had much dating experience, or he might think you’re a higher standard than the girls he’s dated. My advice is to ask him if he wants to get lunch sometime, or something like that. He will probably be shy or nervous around you until he gets to know you better, which may not happen if you leave it up to him.

    #18215
    Anonymous
    Member #382,293

    Thank you for the response. If he wants to get to know me then why does he avoid me too sometimes?

    #19417
    Anonymous
    Member #382,293

    Can I get some more advice please?

    #19295
    Tonio
    Member #39,648

    My best guess is, like I said earlier, that he doesn’t know how he should act around you. He doesn’t want to do anything that might make him look weird or awkward to you, so he just avoids you. He most likely needs you to initiate interaction and make him feel comfortable.

    #19402

    He’s looking for a clue that you’re interested in him, and you can give him one with a lingering smile and a flip of your hair. There’s a whole chapter in Think & Date LIke A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], about how to lure him into asking you out. Most men want to chase a woman and win her over, but the truth is that they want to know who to chase and when! If you give him a hint that you’re chase-able, he’ll make another move forward.

    Flirting is a great tool in the art of attraction, and it’s something you can use to get him to know you’re interested — without coming out and telling him. It’s subtle enough that he can feel like he’s in charge (which makes men feel good about themselves), and you’ll begin to see the value in flirting.

    I hope that helps! Let me know how it goes — and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].

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