[Anonymous]

Hi April,

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 months now, it’s long distance. When we first got together he was really affectionate to me and did all the cute little things that I love. He called me whenever I was upset, used cute pet names for me, he called every day. He said he was falling in love with me too.

We text everyday and we talk on the phone sometimes but not as much as we used to.

Now almost 2 months into the relationship, he doesn’t show affection much. The only affection he shows is when we talk about sex or we go to bed, he’ll send a “Goodnight <3” text. He talks to everyone else more than he talks to me. I understand that he has a troubled past and has trouble showing affection and letting people in but still, he started out showing affection, what happened? What am I doing wrong? We’re pretty sure he’s a sociopath, I understand that they show love in different ways. What can I do?

<3

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

I was with you all the way up until you wrote [quote] We’re pretty sure he’s a sociopath[/quote].
Who is “we” and what makes you think he’s a sociopath?

Let me know and I’ll answer further! 😀

[Anonymous]

Me and him both think this. He seems to have all of the characteristics of a sociopath.

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

If he’s a sociopath, then you’ve answered your own question. He isn’t capable of a normal relationship. The better question is why do you want to date someone who’s got such serious problems? 😯 My advice is you move on and find someone who isn’t long distance and isn’t a sociopath! You’ll have a lot happier and healthier time in life!

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