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Why women do not like nice guys?

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    Anonymous
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    It amaze me that some women do not like nice guys. I notice some claim they want romamce , flowers and etc. But some women perfer the jerks. Meanwhile, I discover over time, the same women claim that men are no good they go after the same bad men. For example, I tried to be involved with a women, but she did not appreciate me. I left her alone and found later that she pefer the jerks. Unfortunately later on , she used emotional and sexually by men who did care for her. Ended up finding out later that I was only person gave her roses. I belive that I will find a women who appreciate me. Now, I learn that improve oneself and do not worry about women who do not like nice guys. The key is being involved in postive and caring relationship. Futhermore, take a look at Murry Povoich’s show the men come on the show are classic smooth talkers say anything to get their way. Finally, it is better to be a nice guy and an nice women will come along a see you as wonderful person.

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    kai
    Member #56

    Hey Kindness, like i mentioned to several other posters — April has told everyone that the welcome area is not to be used as the Q & A advice forum. it even says [i]“DO NOT post your questions” [/i]here, when you go to sign up.

    i suggest you delete the questions you posted in the welcome forum and repost them in the Q & A Relationship Advice Forum instead. i doubt you’ll get a response if you leave them in the welcome area.

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    Let me know how things are going for you? 😉

    #51709
    Sally
    Member #382,674

    A lot of the time it’s not that women don’t like nice guys. It’s that some people confuse nice with safe, predictable, or quiet, and they confuse jerks with confidence or excitement. When someone hasn’t healed their own stuff yet, they chase what feels intense, not what feels steady. That usually blows up later, just like you described.
    Being kind, respectful, and caring isn’t the problem. The problem is trying to give that to someone who isn’t ready to receive it. Those people don’t suddenly appreciate it just because it’s offered.
    You’re right about focusing on yourself and healthy relationships. The right woman won’t need convincing or roses to see your value. She’ll feel calm with you, not bored. Nice doesn’t lose. It just takes longer to find the right match.

    #52439
    Nick Roy
    Member #382,746

    The problem is not a nice guy; the problem is with being boring and predictable. Women like men who challenge them, not those who say yes to everything.
    Anyway, attraction is not a choice; it’s biology. Nice guys often suppress their sexual energy to appear polite, but these things
    Put them in the friend zone.
    That’s why a little playful teasing, mystery, and confidence that says it all without saying a word – that’s the real game.
    Don’t just be a nice guy, be magnetic

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