If a man is an ’emotional wreck’ from the very first meeting, send him to a psychologist, not into your heart. Taking on an ’emotional repair’ project always ends in disaster.
You’re asking, Why did he do that? The answer is simple: Because he was a weak and cowardly man. He never deserved you. There’s no answer to that “Why” that will bring you back to peace.
AskApril was right that the boy was a “Red Flag” from the start. The way to talk to a broken-hearted person is to humiliate yourself further.
Dear, just remember this: Don’t fall in love with “potential.” Fall in love with “reality.”
Next time you see a wretched person, show him the way, not your home address.
