I think he’s got mixed feelings and he’s acting on all of them! He wants to be single, so he breaks up with you. Then he’s scared to be single so he gets back together with you. He’s frustrated in the relationship so he lashes out, and he doesn’t want to lose you so he confesses love. This is crazy making if you take him at his word. Instead, take a step back and try to see this in perspective.
[quote]Do you think he will ever love me again? [/quote]
Yes. It sounds like this is a first love, and first loves are important. You never forget them, and he will eventually grasp his own perspective on his own life and feel love for you again.
[quote]Do you think he will ever love me again?[/quote]
Yes — but it may not be the kind of love that makes him want to date you. There are all sorts of ways to love someone, but they’re not all the type of love you need to make a relationship work. He may love you fondly but not want to date you. Or he may be grateful for the love he feels, but he may know he’s really wanting to play the field and that’s making him feel guilty because he knows it will hurt you.
[quote] Can people fall back in love? [/quote]
Yes. It happens all the time. It may take a month or five years or it may never happen.
[quote]is it a bad sign that he wants to stay away for such a long time?? [/quote]
It’s a sign that he wants distance from the relationship, so if you want this to work out, then yes, it’s a bad sign. Usually when someone needs a break from a relationship it’s because they don’t have the tools they need to break up. It’s a sign that he wants to date other people and play the field — which is normal for 18 year old men. He may also feel overly committed in this relationship and may not want to date anyone else, but may not want to be tied down to you, either. In other words, he may just want to be single.
I hope this helps. Let me know if you have any other questions.
