[girlbehindtheglasses]

I am certainly confused about whether or not I should follow through with this “friend” relationship with this guy. I met him through a pre-college program. I was his counselor and he was my student. Clearly, it was my job and I avoided the situation, being professional and all. However, after the program ended we started texting each other non-stop. He’s going to be a senior in high school and I am in my third year in college. The both of us already shared our feelings for each other and know that this relationship can’t continue, but I happen to be the one constantly texting him. I want to be his friend, but can’t help thinking still that I have feelings for him. I don’t mind the age difference, but we both walk our different paths. What should I do?

[Ask April Masini]

As long as he’s 18 and legal (depending on your state), there’s no reason an age difference should be a problem. What [i]is[/i] sometimes a problem, however, is a difference in life experience. You had the pre-college program you did together in common, but that’s now over. It’s going to be harder to find common ground since he’s back in high school and you’re a junior in college. I was a little concerned that you wrote that you’re the one constantly texting him, and I assume that means he’s not constantly texting you. That telegraphs a lack of interest.

If he wants to ask you out on a date, he’s not too young to know how to do that, so don’t push him, but instead be available and stand by.

I hope that helps — let me know how things go.

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[girlbehindtheglasses]

Thanks April. So, far the relationship we have will continue as friends. We spoke about our different goals, but we’re leaving space for a potential relationship in the future.

[Ask April Masini]

Sounds great. I’m glad things are working out for you. 😀 Please join me on Facebook!! I’d love to have you as a free member of AskApril.com on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].

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