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I will tell you this pain sucks. I don’t want to miss out on the kids life. Wow she messed up our family now the kids are gonna think I’m the bad guy.

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I see what your saying. My only hang up she seems pretty remorseful for it. She talks to me about it and said she’s never Huey someone like this who loved her and she will do anything to keep us together. What do I do?

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Tubes tied but I see what u saying. I just was hoping I was different ( bet u hear that alot). I just know I will miss what I thought she was and miss the kids.

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Wow I think your right about being disappointed. She was very selfishcheating to make her self esteem better. Wow this is hard. Thank you

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I am 31 she is 28. I stayed home due to her getting a new job. She was working from her home. Now she works longer hours. This was the main reason for me to stay home. I want to go back to work but any time bringing up me working made us fight. Since she cheated I am going to work again once I get hired. She has tried since she cheated to make more time with me. We seem closer I just don’t want it to be a act. She said her main reason was due to stress and work and kids plus she felt I didn’t show her the affection she needed. I will admit for the past 4 months she has mentioned showing her I wanted her I was scared I didn’t know how so I didn’t. Now I feel stupid but can it still work or is it to late.

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I am 31 she is 28

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Well last year I quit. I did the stay at home dad thing because she got a new job. She use to work from the house and we spent alot of time together. I have wanted to go back but she argueed that I could stay home and take care of kids and the house. That was always a big fight. I’m now going back to work because being alone drives me nuts now. She said what she did was horrible and she realizes what I mean to her. In the same aspect I’m making a real effort to keep the house up and show more attraction and affection which i was lacking before

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