[Megz327]

There’s nothing you can do now. Time apart may make you both realize what you had and work at it or you may both realize it was never meant to be.
Either way this cycle isn’t healthy. Go do some stuff for yourself. Hang out with your friends, take some fun classes, learn something you always wanted to and just enjoy being you. Find yourself and then everything will fall into place. I am guessing you are young by your typing so you have a lot of time to enjoy life before you want to be in a long term relationship.

[Megz327]

Yeah I also say to tell him.
Everyone has a past and a person past made them into who they are today so if he loves you he will accept your past and not be bothered by it. If you want to someday marry this boy then he needs to love you for everything you were and everything you are and if you never share this info and down the line he finds out, he may be hurt that you felt you had to hide a piece of yourself from him.

[Megz327]

First off, I was the girlfriend of a guy who cheated and its a horrible feeling. Think of how you would feel if it was done to you.

That said, I think you should back off. He’s cheating with you so he will cheat on you if you two ever become official. Tell him how you feel and then let him make up his mind. If he truly cares about you and wants to be with you, other than a secret hook up, then he will break it off with his girlfriend and be with you. If he doesn’t, then it was never anything more than fun.

And no I don’t think it is your place to say anything to the girl. She wont believe you and it wont help matters at all but instead make him probably mad and dislike you and she will be out to screw you over.

[Megz327]

Trust her.
If you continue to ask the same questions or start assuming shes doing things shes not, its going to push you guys apart. You asked her, she answered and if you trust her, like you should, then let it be. She has the right to do what she wants with her time, see who she wants and tell you what she feels you need to know. No one wants to feel like they are being controlled or watched under a microscope.
Maybe plan some lunches during the week if you want to see whats shes doing or who shes with and maybe she’ll open up more and let you in about her day.

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