[lindasaw358]

If you want to sleep with him to the purpose of having sex only, it’s like friends with benefits. But are you really sure that is just your looking for? No regret if it will happen?
So, if you just want sex with him, then flirt with him, talk more about sexiest topic.

[lindasaw358]

He is so selfish, he don’t even care your feelings if he always talked to you.
Yeah! Cut off him in your life completely.
How could you move on if he wants to be friends with you?
Ignore and forget him.

[lindasaw358]

Maybe not if you ask him politely.
Start with “excuse me can I ask you? If he will allow you then say thank you and then smile and follow your question.

[lindasaw358]

Don’t focus yourself into a girl. Make yourself busy.
hang out with friends. “Much better to be a single than to be in a wrong relationship”.

I have steps for you of how to enjoy being single.

1. Ignore the naysayers. In a couple-driven consumer marketing society, you’re bound to come across people who wonder why you’re single, as if the ultimate goal in life is to pair up with another human being and cling to that ideal as if your life depends on it. They might even imply that something is “wrong” with you if you’re single. Brace yourself for that kind of ignorance. Remember that you don’t have to defend your right for being single, just like it’s rude to attack the validity of someone’s relationship. Just say “I prefer being single” and change the subject or mention that statistics show that 1/2 of all people are single.

2. Focus on friendship. Being single doesn’t have to mean being lonely. When you’re single, you have more time to do a variety of things, all of which are opportunities to forge new friendships. Even if you’re an introvert, this can be an excellent time to nurture your extroverted side. But social butterflies can grapple with loneliness too. Make it a priority in your life to create meaningful friendships and enrich your existing ones.

* Learn How to Talk to Strangers. Or, if you’re already good at that, how about How to Hug a Stranger?
Practice communication skills that improve and deepen friendships: How to Be a Good Listener and How to Practice Nonviolent Communication.
* Get better at dealing with difficult people. Read How to Cultivate Compassion in Your Life and How to Deal With Impossible People and who knows? You might find a friend where you previously only found frustration.
* Be Optimistic. Whether you’re in a relationship or not, you want to be happy. Research shows that the number one ingredient for happiness, by far, is optimism.

3. Enjoy your freedom. Everybody has radical little fantasies…and the chances of pairing up with someone who shares such a fantasy with equal fervor is not something to hold your breath for. So what are you waiting for? Find some people who have the same idea, or just go for it alone, and you’ll meet like-minded people along the way.

* How to Start Living in a Tiny House – Much more easily done when you live by yourself!
* Camp As a Lifestyle – Not easy to do if you have a significant other who isn’t as enthused about the outdoors as you are.
* How to Travel on a Very Limited Budget – Radical ideas for shoestring travel.
* Become a Hobo – Not something that’s easy to pull off if you’re in a relationship with someone whose location is fixed.
* Grow Your Own Food – This takes up a lot of your time, and is ridiculously hard to pull off in a relationship if your partner isn’t as passionate about it as you are. However, it’s a good activity to try.

4. Appreciate the absence of compromise. Classic relationship advice dictates that compromise, sacrifice are essential to a healthy relationship. Perhaps if you’ve been in a relationship before, you realize how much stuff you had to give up in order to make that relationship work. Or maybe you forgot about that stuff, because you’re focused on the things you miss. Well, this is a good time to shift that focus. If you’re a slob, isn’t it great to be able to leave your stuff laying around, without anybody minding? If you’re a neat freak, isn’t it wonderful to be able to organize everything, and find it the way you left it? Isn’t it nice to be able to cook and eat and enjoy foods that a partner might be averse to? Isn’t it cool to be able to go out spontaneously, without wondering whether your partner can or should be invited? A relationship can add many good things to your life, but it also adds some rigidity, so take the time to appreciate your current flexibility.

5. Cherish the excitement. Relationships tend to come along with planning–for example, you can’t just accept a job across the country without touching base with your significant other. And generally, if you’re in it for the long haul, you’ll likely talk about what you’ll be doing years from now. But when you’re single, the future is completely open. Today you’re at your desk, and a year from now you might be camping in Alaska. Right now you’re single, but tomorrow you might meet your soul-mate. Who knows? Fantasize. Be spontaneous. Be bold.

6. Being married is a “lifestyle choice” and not a “requirement.” Therefore, being single is a “lifestyle choice” and not a “default option.” It is possible to CHOOSE to be single. There are advantages to being single just as there are disadvantages to being married, such as loss of personal freedom, having to compromise, etc. Conversely, there are advantages to being single, as well as disadvantages. Whether one is married or single is nothing more than a lifestyle.

[lindasaw358]

Don’t break him, I think he is good for you.
Nothing wrong with long distance relationship as long as the spark are still there.

[lindasaw358]

Take your time to think if you really want to go or not. But think also that you are pregnant. I think you can still fix this issue.
Talked to him, or give him another chance. It’s really important you to hear his side why he did that to you.

[lindasaw358]

Definitely it’s not your fault. it his fault. He is not trustworthy and unfaithful in you.
Leave him, he just hurt you again and again. Move on and learn from it.
Glad that you are not married to that kind of guy. Spend your time with your two kids, focus your time with them.
Get him lost.

[lindasaw358]

Ask him what his plan for you, if he want serious or not.
But you must aware this situation also because you really don’t know if he is serious or not.
I had experience dating online site. All I thought he is serious, he talked to me all the time, almost everyday, called me almost every night. Seeing him in Skype. He support me financially too. We talked more about in future. But one day his friend (girl) message me in Facebook telling that the person I trusted is not single, his a married man. Of course I was shocked. Then at first I didn’t believe him but every time I asked him about his status he got angry. So, I decided to stop. And then he stop sending message in my Facebook too. A month ago, his brother confirmed that his brother was a married man.

So, I told to myself that I don’t trust online people. Much better to look someone who will meet you personally. Don’t waste your time with him,

[lindasaw358]

He is not really serious with you because if he does, he will always touch with you even through text or call. But you never hear this guy after that night. So, too obvious that he is not interested with you. He’s done with you.
You did mistake, ‘let the guy ask you first’. Forget about him, you just wasted your time.
Stop texting him too.

[lindasaw358]

It’s easy to hold hands. And don’t put different meaning.
He just want you to trust him or give you good feeling inside.
Don’t trust to easy. Observe him.

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