[Lamine]

I actually think because of your broken back, your girlfriend isn’t satisfied by your performance in bed and she thinks it a waste of time, and jus doesn’t want to. This is quite a complicated one. I feel like if she loves you she’s gonna let you have your fun, but she also has to please her needs, you know what i mean.

Also, woman aren’t meant to be the sole providers for the home, even when they are willing to, unknowingly resentments build up, and they start not feeling as good about the man.

It’s sad, man.

[Lamine]

You fucked up once, you ran down a business due to negligence. But that is gone. It happens. You were young.

You failed, you picked up yourself, got a job.

You didn’t like the job, you started a restaurant business with him.

It failed and you got another job.

That’s what adults do, that’s what your boyfriend should have done.

His issue is deeper than you think, maybe something happened to him in the military.

As a matter of fact, I don’t think you should be dating this guy cos all he’s gonna do is weigh you down.

He needs to get his shit together and put on his big boy pant.

He although needs help but i think you’re better off offering this help as a friend not as a committed partner.

You can talk to him, motivate him, show him job postings.

[Lamine]

Hmmmm. At least she has some boundaries, she has a line she doesn’t want to cross, YET.

Personally, I don’t like when people make a big deal of how much their partner works. Using that as an excuse to flirt with other men or women, even worse. Cos you are only trying to improve the quality of life of the family.

However, you can do better, one, you have to let her know that you know, and it hurts that she was willing to have sex with the guy from the bar, but acknowledge your role in it and you’re willing to make amends.

And the amend is that you are gonna make the 3 nights you spend with her count more. She likes going out to the bars, go with her, as April said. You know other things she likes, so make those 3 nights as fun as possible.

She also has to cut contact with the said guy and stop going to that particular bar.

[Lamine]

I’m sorry to hear about your mother’s sickness. AskApril is right. Younger people can learn from this. At times because you’ve been friends with someone for so long, you may feel like you know each other enough to skip the dating part and move into a relationship. But it doesn’t always work like that. the romance and the responsibilities attached to the romance makes it is different, so you need to observe your compatibility as romantic partners before getting in a relationship

[Lamine]

i fEEL gUilTy” “I feel Soory”, you ain’t fooling no one. 6 good years of cheating on your husband. Have you had children in that period? Probably not his. Damn! He should get a DNA test if you had children during that period.

This is really unfair to your partner. You’ve been with your fellow cheat for 6 years. You both cheating on your partners and hurting innocent people. Why don’t you just get together already and let this innocent people, move on and meet people who genuinely love them.

You say you feel guily? Well, let me add to that by reminding you that you swore an oath in the presence of God, your family, and his family to be faithful. But here we are

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