OMG!!! it sounds very painful and can affect your mental health. his drinking issue and behavior towards you are serious problem. Please don’t forget that you deserve to feel secure and respected. Go ahead and leave him and start a new life with your own happiness.
calling you his ex’s name and getting angry when you react is a red flag!!! Try to be calm and ask him for a deep talk when the emotions are not high. Explain to him that you are willing to support him seeing his kids but it’s unfair to the point that he called you his ex’s name. Communication and boundaries are really important for a marriage.
Try to step back and think if you deserve that kind of relationship. He obviously won’t choose you because he can’t leave his girlfriend so please have some dignity and wait for someone that can truly love you and choose you. Always respect yourself first especially your peace of mind.
Some of women have lost interest in sex when they become 35 years old and above. Yes, your idea to look for some advice on what you should do to your wife to make your sex life spice again will definitely help your problem. Don’t give up on your wife and do your best to make her excited to have sex with you again.
Your cousin taking advantage of you because he feel that you have a crush on him. He started flirting you and it’s normal to be confused because you’re too young for that complicated situation. it’s very normal to have a crush on someone but not in your relative. Just enjoy your childhood and avoid being involved to a complicated situation.
