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Althea MaeMember #382,769It might help to have a conversation on how you both define attraction and comfort by wearing sexy dress. you can do it for your self as long as you’re comfortable wearing it. at some point, maybe your boyfriend wants to protect you from other guy who has bad intention.
Althea MaeMember #382,769At 16, just focus on yourself and your goals are the best choice. one or two bad experience don’t define all relationship and there are certain people who will treat you with kindness. just give yourself time to heal and be patient to wait for the right person
Althea MaeMember #382,769Since he keep saying you will “understand eventually”, try to give him assurance that there is no pressure from you. just enjoying being close to him regardless when sex happen. trust and patience can help you both feel secure and wait for the things to be in progress.
Althea MaeMember #382,769It’s perfect that you respect her boundaries even you’re interested with her. you really have an emotional intelligence. just keep an open communication and enjoy getting to know each other. Don’t make things rush.
Althea MaeMember #382,769The important thing for now is to get support from people who really cares for you while you are on the healing process. remember that you’re not alone, you have your family that loves you unconditionally. Don’t depend your happiness on your ex boyfriend. you deserve love and care, especially those times that you feel weak and vulnerable.
Althea MaeMember #382,769Try to have some deep talk with your mom and tell her how you feel and listen to her reason. maybe she only wants to protect you. Explain to your mom that you still love your ex and wanted to give him a second chance and prove his love for you. Rest assure that you won’t get hurt again so your mom don’t get hurt as well.
Althea MaeMember #382,769It’s okay to feel uncomfortable because you are the girlfriend and your feelings are valid so tell him to stop keeping secret and stop entertaining other girls in any communication platform. You have the right to demand and if he really loves you, he will agree to protect your peace of mind.
March 7, 2026 at 5:32 pm in reply to: He’s a complete different person, i dont know what to do. #52726
Althea MaeMember #382,769It can affect your mental health and it’s unfair to you. You deserve respect and trust, not constant accusations. He obviously doesn’t care about your feelings so walk away and leave him and find or wait for someone you deserve
Althea MaeMember #382,769pay attention for the love and care he show you. A man who truly loves you will build more memories with you. also it’s important to set boundaries and feel comfortable every time you’re with him.
Althea MaeMember #382,769Always have a good communication with your partner and don’t let small confusion ruin your relationship. be honest to talk about what makes you enjoy and him how you love him.
Althea MaeMember #382,769Try to spend more time together and see if he will make an effort and if he really interested to you. If he really like you, he will respect you care for you. trust your instinct
Althea MaeMember #382,769Don’t bother sharing to someone about your dating history if you are not comfortable. Let others judge you while others appreciate you for who you are. dating timeline for everyone is different so try to focus on yourself and wait for the right person to come in your life
Althea MaeMember #382,769Since your dreams ended to chose your boyfriend despite your arguments meaning you value your relationship with him and your dreams can reflect to your emotions and thoughts but you have nothing to worry about. it is on your mind processed the feelings in the past.
Althea MaeMember #382,769Before getting too much attachment, try to take things slowly and give more time for yourself just to make sure about his true intention. see if he will treat you with respect and not for flirt only.
Althea MaeMember #382,769Take your time to think if what makes you happy and who is treating you well. maybe your ex reacting now because he see you happy now with someone else. I understand that you feel torn but remember that your ex asked you to move one before and now he came back to make you confuse.
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