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Eric MorganMember #382,776You cooked for her, and she came back to have dinner with you. I think the green light is flashing.
Don’t let the momentum fade by overthinking it.
And also consider April’s expert advice! to impress her with your facial expression and voice, and read her body language to gauge her true feelings
Eric MorganMember #382,776You need to understand that while worrying about Holly because of her allergy is a good thing, showing up at her house feels more like ‘control’ than ‘care.’ It can make a girl feel like you are keeping tabs on her
Anyway, I don’t think it’s that big of a problem. If he doesn’t respond, you should focus your attention elsewhere. Insecurity is only compromised when your entire day depends on just one person’s reply.
Eric MorganMember #382,776I would like to say one thing here that I always like April’s advice because she looks at every situation in a very balanced and practical way. Creating a safe space for April and guiding someone so respectfully is truly admirable.
I agree with Ask April that you should go on the date she invited you to. It’s the perfect time to express that you wanted to take the lead yourself.
Eric MorganMember #382,776Its Not a love to run after anyone for 11 years, it could be obsession or ego, the girl who kept you hanging around, she probably doesn’t love you, but the attention you give her, so my dear, be careful, old memories often seem more beautiful than reality.
I like April’s practical and somewhat neutral approach, and she’s right that moving at 28 is a big step, and maybe you are not ready for that commitment either, so you remember your “bachelor lifestyle
I think you need to give yourself space and think more deeply about where your feelings are going.
Eric MorganMember #382,776Listen Closely. This guy is no mystery; he’s a classic, a tension seeker who likes a little something. He showed you everything you wanted to see. The perfect family man, provider, and exclusive boyfriend. But as soon as he felt he had won your heart, his addiction wore off.
I agree with Ask April! That he’s coming back now because you didn’t behave crazily. So he thinks you’ll tolerate his behavior.
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