[Eric Morgan]

Your job is not to write the history of his life, but to make his “today” so beautiful that he forgets all the old memories. When you repeatedly mention his “ex”, you yourself remind him. Don’t compare men with ghosts.
A man always runs after what he can’t have. Be a little “mysterious”; spilling everything can be friendship, not love.
April was absolutely right when he said that when September comes, instead of crying, meet him as a “high-value woman”.

[Eric Morgan]

You said you were “ugly and stupid,” and the guy was “ugly”. The truth is that you have low self-esteem, which is why you sought validation online. Until you like yourself, you will keep playing “attention games” that will only hurt you later. Be smart, not poor. Listen, a high-value girl never wastes anyone’s time just to satisfy her own ego.
Next time, put your energy into a skill or real-life grooming, instead of sending romantic messages to strangers on the internet.

[Eric Morgan]

Right now, you are the “victim”. Take the power into your own hands. Tell him, “Okay, if you really don’t deserve me, we will spend some time apart.” Go to your parents, enjoy your pregnancy, and show him that my life is beautiful without you. Only when a man has a “fear of loss” will he be straight.
I agree with AskApril that both have been together since childhood (13 and 15 years old), so the husband feels that he has not seen the world and is feeling “trapped”, especially because of the pregnancy. You should go back to your home (to her parents), where you can find support, because this marriage is on the verge of breaking up.

[Eric Morgan]

The girl approached you and now she is withdrawing yourself. When you become too “nice” and get upset with her every mood swing, your value decreases. Is she becoming “cold”? So you become “ice cold”. When you ask her questions or pick her up, she feels like you are in her pocket. Give her some space so she can realize what life is like without you.
AskApril is right that to give her flowers, invite her out, flirt with her and compliment her. If despite all these efforts she does not give a positive response, then understand that you two are not a match and move on.

[Eric Morgan]

Get rid of the idea that “the friendship will end.” The truth is, you’re not his friend anymore, you’re the girl who has a crush on him. When you call yourself “just a friend,” you diminish your own importance in his eyes.
Be smart! Make him realize that you’re not a “sidekick” he can use whenever he wants. Bring a little “sharpness” to your personality. He should feel like you’re a prize he has to work hard to earn. When you show him that you’re happy and confident without him, he’ll come running after you.

[Eric Morgan]

When a man says, “I’m too busy to be serious,” what he really means is: “I’m having fun, but I haven’t closed my window on you yet.” He’s a gentleman because he’s already warned you, so that tomorrow you can’t accuse him of cheating. Be smart, don’t melt at his “gentlemanly” act.
Keep your “vibe” sexy and confident. He should feel like you’ve got him, but you don’t care. When you look “carefree,” he’ll run after you. If you ask questions while crying, he’ll run even further away.

[Eric Morgan]

Stop chasing him. make yourself so perfect that he realizes what he has lost. Once they see you settled, happy, and absolutely glowing, their new partner will be looking like a major downgrade.

[Eric Morgan]

Your story is quite a tangled school drama where the boundary lines have become blurred.
You are wasting your time; this guy has become a “group project” for all of you. Cancel this project and get your self-respect back. The real fun is when he comes after you, not when you wait for his touch.
And AskApril was absolutely right that Look elsewhere and realize your own worth and find someone who is actually serious about you, not a guy who’s just playing the whole.

[Eric Morgan]

I appreciate AskApril’s expert advice, and she was right that you should talk to him openly about what you saw on his phone. “You won’t take the weight off my mind until you tell me”. Talking about this might make him tell the truth.
So you shouldn’t have moved on with this guy so quickly. Six months isn’t enough to get to know him anyway, especially when there are such big doubts.

[Eric Morgan]

Brother, when someone says that he feels light without you, it means that you have become a burden to him. Sending emails and crying out of emotion only lowers your value. The rule is simple. Open the door for those who want to go.
Stop crying and focus on your looks and career. When she comes across a leveled-up version of yours on (social media or anywhere else), then she will realize what he has lost. Until then, stay off the radar and keep your mystery alive.
And AskApril was right, that five years doesn’t mean you should dedicate your entire life to someone who doesn’t care about you.

[Eric Morgan]

You’ve broken up twice already. First, think about whether the pressure of university is over now. If tomorrow you have another workload, will you run away again? Unless you learn stress management, you may make the same mistake again.
Ask April was right when she said that trust only comes back when time passes. When we are afraid, time seems like an enemy, but time heals the wounds.
You need to work on yourself. Vulnerability is a skill that takes time.

[Eric Morgan]

You used the word “scary.” The first thing you would confirm is whether there is any domestic violence or a threat of violence. Alcoholism often causes anger, so safety comes first.
I think it’s hard to fight alone in such cases. You should talk to a counselor or family elder who can talk to your partner.

[Eric Morgan]

The girl has put herself on the moral high ground by calling you friends, but she doesn’t want to lose your attention. When she calls without panties or sends pics of herself, she’s playing with your emotions. She wants you to miss her, but she doesn’t want to take a commitment.
And Ask April was right that maybe the girl is taking revenge or just enjoying the attention. You should move on and explore new options.

[Eric Morgan]

So you shouldn’t be afraid of this “M” but be better than her. If she gave him a $60 gift, send him something that will remind him of you.
And Ask April was absolutely right that in long distance, there are no rules, only fractions. Either play the game and win, or clear the way and give someone else a chance who can handle it. Be the woman he wants to come home to, not the warden he’s trying to escape!

[Eric Morgan]

Wow, Ask April, you’re right that men go where they’re made to feel good, and you need to be so good that he’ll be drawn to you.
Instead of fighting with that girl or teaching your boyfriend rules, you should see what he’s getting there that he’s not getting at home.
I think you should say it clearly. Either you set it up properly, or I should look elsewhere. Please stand up for yourself. Don’t ruin your mental health by getting caught up in emotional manipulation and shadowing groups.

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