[Chan Ghian]

Yes, you’ve made the right choice, you have to be prepared for some family transitions that you need to consider the feelings and opinion of your kids. Maybe your son is not comfortable yet to have a new circle of family and living together with his soon to be step dad and step brothers. You’re son is too young to understand everything about family matters, so please explain carefully and observe your surroundings when you’re with your boyfriend’s company.

[Chan Ghian]

You should step back and find a single guy so you won’t hurt anyone. Don’t make yourself involve to someone that already has a relationship. Don’t ruin someone relationship and don’t destroy someone’s peace of mind. Find your own happiness without hurting someone.

[Chan Ghian]

Yes you should tell everything to your current boyfriend. Keeping secret means lying. I’m sure he’ll understand you and accept your past. Don’t be afraid to let him know everything about you. If he stay with you, that’s the time you’ll see that he truly loves you.

[Chan Ghian]

You should stop your relationship with that abusive guy. I believe, your mother will understand you if you explain carefully what you are going through with that abusive guy. You deserve peaceful life and while you’re still with that guy, your life is a mess. so step back and find a guy that can treat you well.

[Chan Ghian]

Stay away from him and move on like what he did. He obviously doesn’t love you. Sorry but I have to tell you the truth even I know it’s hurt. Focus on your work even you see him at work, just be casual and convince yourself to start disliking him. What he did was a very Red flag.

[Chan Ghian]

Hello Cassian, for me it’s look like emotional disconnection and not the end of the relationship but it’s need an attention. the fact that you both feel it is a good sign because it means you can address it together. Just try having an honest and pressure-free conversation about how things going and suggest something new that makes your relationship work again.If you ignore it, it can slowly turn to distance but if you face it together, you can rebuild the spark.

[Chan Ghian]

I understand why you overthinking. If I’m in your position, I will think the way you thinking as well. For now, focus on your relationship with him and avoid mentioning the name of his ex. Create memories and make an effort for the stronger relationship. Do no talk about her ex anymore. Focus on the present and for your future. Don’t look back

[Chan Ghian]

Hi Sofia, I completely agree with you. it’s very rare to find a space like this forum where people like us feel truly heard without judgment. having a place like this to share openly especially regarding our personal struggles can make a difference when you don’t feel comfortable talking elsewhere. I also appreciate how thoughtful and consistent the advice is.. it really help us bring clarity in the middle of our confusing situations. We are so blessed to have AskApril to be our listener and expert adviser.

[Chan Ghian]

Hey Sara, Give him time because in his case, he is highly disciplined and mission-driven and will open up emotionally connection once a pressure period have passed but only if he see the relationship is stable and not a distraction. he wants to prioritize his goals first before lovelife and it usually depends on emotional connection to his success. try to enjoy yourself and find your own way of happiness without him and let’s see if he will reach out to you afterward.

I hope this will help.

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