[Jay Cee]

The fact that she’s already broke up with you, you should focus on moving on. keep yourself busy, hangout with friends find someone else. Just focus on yourself, don’t get involve in her problems, especially if it’s personal, you might end up getting hurt.

[Jay Cee]

You should go for it, no matter what other people think. Because you’ll never know what could happen unless you try. Get to know her first, don’t judge her based on what other says. You’re the one interacting with her, not others, so you should be the one who truly knows.

[Jay Cee]

What if all his what if’s never actually happen, what if your relationship actually work out. I think he’s really not committed to you, and he just using those what ifs as excuses. It might the best to accept the breakup. It’s painful yes, but moving on is necessary. There are may way to moving forward, like keeping yourself busy do all thing that makes you happy. Just focus on yourself first.

[Jay Cee]

For me it’s normal. it’s just that you like that girl that much that’s why you do that kind of thing. But there’s nothing to worry about as long as the intention isn’t bad, it’s okay. You can also try to asking the girl for permission then if she agree you won’t have to worry anymore.

[Jay Cee]

If he’s into you he’ll make time for you. he’s actually supposed to be the one to text you first. And you can tell if he’s excited to talk to you. that’s how guy act when they like a girl. But if he can’t even make a simple effort he’s not interested. Don’t get your hopes ups, its a clear answer.

[Jay Cee]

I understand your point, but in legal process he’s right since you’re not married. For now since you too are okay maybe you should focus on strengthen your relationship. That way, she might consider marrying you. You’re overanalyzing things. You said you love each other right? True love wouldn’t make you think that way.

[Jay Cee]

It’s obvious that she’s not serious about you. For me the best thing to do is to distance yourself to her. If you do that maybe she might realize how important you are, especially if she cares about your friendship. If you think that you don’t deserve that kind of treatment then find someone else, you deserve better.

[Jay Cee]

Don’t wait for someone to talk to you first, unless someone’s going to do it for you. Remember that a guy is always make a first move. Maybe the only thing wrong is the way you start a conversation, try a different way of starting a conversation. That’s what you should improving.

[Jay Cee]

Don’t rush the girl to ask her out, she might think you’re arrogant. Try to make a conversation if you think that she is comfortable talking with you, that’s the time you make a move. You can try inviting her to eat or have a coffee together etc.

[Jay Cee]

Most of the people just doesn’t want to hurt or embarrass someone, that’s why she can’t tell you directly that she doesn’t like you. IF ever that you get a chance to see her i think it’s better to talking to her. Try to approach her again but if it seems that she’s really not interested in you, that’s the time you need stop. But if you really like her maybe you should try harder.

[Jay Cee]

Maybe you just haven’t found the right girl for you. Don’t pressure yourself too much, the right girl will come to you at the right time. You’re still young, believe me you’ll meet a lot of girl. For now just enjoy being single.

[Jay Cee]

Show her that you’ve changed, and that you have now a better plans for your future together and also for your child. Maybe you should double your effort especially making a living, so you can be financial stable. Once she sees your effort and the result, she might back to you. This is also for your own good and for your family.

[Jay Cee]

It depends if she smile like that to everyone maybe she’s just being friendly. But if she only smile like that with you maybe she like you. If your interested in her why don’t you ask her.

[Jay Cee]

LDR situation is never easy. It needs patient and trust to each other. About your situation that your girl is single mother and busy to make a living, maybe she is not into romance like text message etc. Maybe you should double your effort, show her how much you like her and you’re serious for her, then if it’s not work, you should find another girl. Not all long distance relationship is worked.

[Jay Cee]

Sharing to your friends about your feelings or to whom you’re interested in is natural. Maybe he is shy to tell about his feelings to you that’s why he’s not telling you. Or maybe he was afraid to be rejected or may he change his mind. My advice is just wait for him to do the first move because he is the man.

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