[Zion Clyde]

How can you say you love him but still want to explore other people? That doesn’t make sense to me. It feels a bit strange. If you truly love someone, you wouldn’t even think about looking for someone else just because you’re not ready or because you want to experience other relationships.

Your reason feels too shallow. It would be better to just leave him if you’re not sure about him, so he doesn’t keep hoping and can find someone who is more deserving of him.

[Zion Clyde]

Communication is always important. It’s not really about how you went about it, but what matters now is that you talk to her right away so you can understand her reason for secretly talking to her ex.
But make sure you approach the conversation calmly and not in a way that sounds like you’re immediately accusing her. Just ask her openly and respectfully. And you should also ask yourself if you may have fallen in love too quickly. There’s nothing wrong with falling in love fast.

[Zion Clyde]

You don’t love her, because if you truly loved her, you wouldn’t care about what your friends and family say. I’m not saying you should ignore them, but above all, you are the one who knows her. And if you really love her, you will fight for her.

If you can’t stand your ground, then leave her and don’t give her false hope. She was living peacefully with a boyfriend, and now you made her fall for you, she chose you, and then you still won’t choose her. That’s not how a real man acts.

[Zion Clyde]

For me, it’s not right to interfere in your best friend’s relationship or to decide things for her. Stay out of it. You can give your opinion, but you shouldn’t dictate what she should do. It’s her life—let her decide for herself.

[Zion Clyde]

You’re right, it’s fun and entertaining to read people’s comments and problems here. It also feels good when you’re able to give advice that helps someone in a positive way.

[Zion Clyde]

I think you’re feeling jealous and you want his attention focused on you, which is why you end up being rude to him. Maybe it would be better if you showed him that you’re interested in him instead of acting rude.
Then just wait and see if he asks you out on a date. Since you already like him, that might be more effective. Just try it.

[Zion Clyde]

What you did was right. You shouldn’t let what he did to you slide, especially since your child needed that money and he was your boyfriend.

You should just learn from this experience in your life—that you need to choose people who are truly worthy of your full trust. That way, it won’t happen again in the future.

For now, just move on and focus on yourself and your child.

[Zion Clyde]

I think there’s still a chance for you both, maybe just not right now. What’s important is that you’re genuinely sorry and you’re proving that you’re changing and doing everything you can to become better and be worthy of her again.

Maybe right now she’s just very angry, which is why she’s acting that way. She might also be trying to make you feel the hurt she felt, which is why she said she’s dating other guys.

We all make mistakes—the important thing is that we learn from them so they don’t happen again in the future. As long as she’s still talking to you and hasn’t fully cut you off or moved on to someone else, just keep trying and don’t give up.

[Zion Clyde]

You don’t need to change yourself just to get other people’s sympathy. Just be natural and do what makes you happy, as long as you’re not doing anything wrong or hurting anyone. There’s nothing wrong with what you’re doing if it doesn’t step on anyone else’s rights or feelings.

[Zion Clyde]

You don’t have to choose between your dreams and your relationship. You can use your relationship as motivation to achieve your goals. In the end, it’s for both of you and for the family you hoped to build together. Your intention is good—it’s a beautiful idea to build a family where both of you are financially stable and successful.

Maybe it would have been better if you had included him in your dreams, especially if your relationship with him was really important to you. It’s possible that in your strong desire to reach your goals, you may have unintentionally set him aside. But there’s nothing wrong with choosing a better future for yourself—that’s a meaningful and admirable goal. It just depends on how the two of you handle and balance things together.

[Member]

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