[Florein]

What happened has already happened. If you want to fix it, stop cheating on your husband, forget about the affair, and go back to your husband. If you can’t do that, then separate from your husband and don’t deceive him. Cheat only after you are separated—even if it’s not legal yet—at least your husband knows the truth.

[Florein]

Move on already. She has already lost interest in you, which is why her behavior is like that. That’s just how it is—you need to accept it even if it’s hard, rather than forcing something that no longer works.

Just find someone else, keep yourself busy, and distract yourself. Leave her alone for now. Maybe after days or weeks of not talking, she might realize that she really likes you—but don’t expect that. Focus on moving on.

[Florein]

You made the right decision. If he needs time and space, give it to him, but don’t expect anything. You really need to focus on yourself because it’s still not certain whether he will come back or not. So you need to be ready.

[Florein]

Don’t base things on “maybe.” If you like her, then continue. If you really want her, show it—tell her you like her. She’s single right now, so ask her out and go on a date with her.

If she accepts, good. If she says she’s not ready yet, you can still continue as long as she hasn’t told you to stop or that she likes someone else—there’s still hope.

So you should act faster, because someone else might get there before you do.

[Florein]

If that is what you believe, then we don’t have the right to say you are wrong. We respect that belief of yours.

[Florein]

It depends—only they can really say that. We can’t immediately assume anything for sure. It’s not really about how fast or how long it took before they became a couple; what matters is how they are together and how they handle the situations that come their way.

They could last and be strong, or they could break up quickly. So if I were you, I would just continue moving on. If he comes back and you’re still available, then okay—but if not, that’s also okay, because you’ve already moved on anyway.

[Florein]

There’s nothing wrong with that since you’re partners, especially because he’s doing something questionable. It also seems like he isn’t considering your feelings. If he were a decent man, he wouldn’t allow you to get hurt because of his communication with his ex, and he wouldn’t insist that he can’t cut ties with her just because they’re “friends.” But what about your emotions? He should be the one protecting those first.

You need to give him an ultimatum regarding his ex. Tell him you will leave him if he doesn’t cut off contact with her. That way, you’ll find out how important you really are to him.

[Florein]

I think he still loves you, which is why he can’t let go of your things, and that’s why he keeps delaying giving them back—because after that, everything between you might really be completely over.

If there is someone else, it just means he is confused about who he really wants, because for me it’s clear he still has feelings for you. But what he did by putting another girl’s profile picture is very disrespectful.

For now, you need to move on and not wait for him anymore. If you really want your things back, just tell him you will report it to the police if he still refuses to give them, so you can finally get your things and cut off the connection with him.

[Florein]

There’s nothing wrong with it, as long as you fix your problems with your spouses first. What I mean is, if you want to have a relationship with someone else, then leave your spouses first and get a divorce—especially if your spouse is already irresponsible. That way, everything is cleaner, there won’t be problems or chaos, and most importantly, you won’t be stepping on or deceiving anyone.

[Florein]

If you’re hurt by what she’s doing, show her that you’re truly hurt so she can realize that what she’s doing is wrong instead of just arguing with her. And if she still can’t understand you, that’s a problem. In fact, now that you’re married, your commitment to each other should be even stronger, but it seems like the opposite happened. Ever since you got married, her commitment and responsibilities as your wife seem to have lessened. If she doesn’t change, your relationship could become unhealthy, and it might even reach the point where you start looking for attention from someone else. She needs to understand that.

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