[Keisha]

I think you might just be overthinking. If he liked you, he would probably say it directly to you. He doesn’t seem like a shy type of guy, and he even seems popular in your school.

[Keisha]

You didn’t do anything wrong. It would be better if you just move on. That man doesn’t really know what he wants in life.

Think about it—who would go a whole month without any communication if you were really important to them? Right? If you really mattered to him, he wouldn’t just disappear like that.

It simply means you’re not that important to him, so it’s better for you to move on.

[Keisha]

If you want to do the right thing, you need to forget what you feel for your husband’s best friend. First, you are married, and second, you already know it could destroy your relationship.

Not only that, it could also damage their friendship and affect many people around you. So if I were you, I would just let go of those feelings and move on from them—that’s what you should do.

[Keisha]

It is a bit fast since you’ve only met twice, but that doesn’t really matter as much as the connection you both have.

For now, you’re doing the right thing by giving her space so you don’t come across as too pushy or like you’re bothering her. If she truly likes you, she will reach out to you for sure.

[Keisha]

If you’re not ready for that, then say no and be honest about it so he won’t expect too much. It’s also your right not to do things you’re not comfortable with. Don’t make your life more complicated than it needs to be.

[Keisha]

Right now, yes—there’s nothing else you can really do because you’ve been too slow about it. If you truly want her, you need to move beyond just being friends.

You might have to risk the friendship if necessary. So the next time you talk to her again, go all in. Otherwise, someone else might get her, and you could end up regretting it later.

[Keisha]

If you want to do the right thing, it would be better to wait until she breaks up with her boyfriend before making a move on her. Even though her signals are quite clear that she likes you, if you want to stay respectful, it’s best to wait.

But if you want to do what you feel like doing because you also like her, then you could start pursuing her, especially since she might already have feelings for you and her long-distance relationship could make things easier for you.

It really comes down to your choice—you can do what is right, or you can do what you want. In the end, you will just have to think about yourself and decide.

[Keisha]

Maybe he has a problem with his family. Instead of getting upset right away, you should confirm first. It’s better to talk to him first, and once you understand the real reason, then you can decide.

Don’t make a rushed decision just because of one thing you didn’t like. Also, remember all the good things you’ve said about him. Don’t throw that away over one incident when you still don’t even know the real reason behind

[Keisha]

If you think he is truly making up for it and you can really see his effort—so much so that he is even trying to transfer his job closer to you—then what’s the point of still trying to figure out why he acted that way?

Even he himself has already said that maybe he is just ashamed of what he did. But what really matters now? Is it knowing the reason, or seeing his change and his loyalty to you again?

[Keisha]

To be honest, that can really be painful for a man, especially since you even introduced him to those people even though something had happened in the past. But at the same time, that still isn’t a valid enough reason for him to cheat, since those events happened before you were even together.

So maybe it would be better if you just separate, because your relationship is already becoming unhealthy. And like you said, you don’t want to live a miserable life, so it might be better to end it early.

[Member]

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