[stephie27]

Hi…
Gal…I understand how u feel coz i’ve been in and out of depression. but now i’ve learnt to get a hold on my life. If he has decided not to be with you anymore, let him be. you need to forget about him. have some self-respect! Love yourself gal! once u realize your worth, your thoughts of dying will also come to an end! Life is beautiful and no person is indispensible! It will definitely hurt for sometime, but life goes on and it is time for you to move on! I’m sure you’ll feel better after a while and then who knows, u might get to meet someone better! life is full of surprises..but it is also a challenge! Take up that challenge! coz one day…when things r going good n when you think back, u’ll b glad you didnt give up then! You will make it! Have Faith!

[stephie27]

Thanks April!
I completely agree with you, coz i’ve had boyfriends who were wonderful guys but i was just incapable of loving them back because of the hurt that someone else had caused to me.
just to inform you about the progress, he did contact me this week again like on every alternate day and would apologise. i didnt show him that i bothered much. just laughed it out. And i know that this obsession that I have will die after a point of time, thats just the way i am. About moving to his town, I’m not doing it for him, I’ll be joining college in his current city in June. Actually thats the reason we got a lot closer coz he had helped me out a lot with regard to getting into that college and so did his parents, who are extremely fond of me. i guess thats the reason i started dreaming of a future with him.
So i’m hoping once I’m in his city, he might, profess his feelings for me, if i’m still interested in him and vice versa since i know he’s extremely shy and is taking a lot of time on this one.
but i need your advice on how do i manage till then! how do i stay happy and also not chase him off?
Please Help!

P.S. He’ll be visiting me in April! 🙂

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