If after dating for six months you’re not sure that your girlfriend is all that interested in you, you should trust your instincts. Sometimes it’s hard to accept the truth because you want things to be different than they are. But if what you’re saying is true — that you see each other once a week, and she says she’ll text you but doesn’t always, and on top of that you just don’t think she’s that into you, well, then, she isn’t.
It sounds like it’s hard for you to move on because she hasn’t done anything heinous or dramatic with you. She hasn’t cheated. She hasn’t made unreasonable demands on you. She hasn’t abused you emotionally or otherwise. And on top of that, she’s pleasant with you and says she loves you, but her actions aren’t showing you that she really cares very much. When someone is polite and not a dramatic or evil or troubled person, it’s sometimes hard to admit that they’re just not Ms. Right. There’s nothing drastically wrong — and yet you’re unsatisfied. Don’t settle for mediocrity.
My advice to you is to start dating other people. You can check out my book, Date Out of Your League, by clicking on the Dating Advice Books link at the top of this page, and then scrolling down until you see the book, and purchasing it. The book will help you start to figure out what you want and how to get it when it comes to dating. I only suggest it because sometimes men need a push to get going and start dating — especially when ending a relationship, like I’m suggesting you do here.
If there’s no spark, and it’s been six months, move on and find someone who excites you and makes you feel special and like the man you want to be.
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