Yup! Let it go. He’s not the one.
Here’s why: he shouldn’t be giving you his number. You should be giving him [i]yours! [/i] He’s not comfortable acting like the man in the relationship. He’s making you be the guy by doing the chasing. This is a big red warning light, and a sign that you’re going to have problems down the line — if things continue. Which they aren’t.
His not calling you is the ultimate sign he’s not interested. Sorry. I know how much you don’t want this to be true, but it is.
If a man is interested in you, he’ll chase you until he catches you. Your job is to give him something to chase so he feels victorious when he finally does get you. If you make it too easy on him, you’re giving him the booby prize, not the grand prix prize.
You might want to check out my book, Think & Date Like A Man, that will show you how to find Mr. Right and how to get him — without being the man! I’m not trying to sell my book as much as I’m trying to help you. I think you would really benefit from a quick read. You can download the book here: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]
Since you’re 29, you’re probably thinking about marriage and children. This is a perfect time for you to take dating seriously. I do. And I know you’ll find Mr. Right with some changes in your behavior (don’t take guys’ numbers and don’t be the one to initiate contact) and look for men who are not only available, but truly interested!
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