[quote]…and when we began our ups and downs he decided to not share his password with me either on his phone and computer…so I did the same. [/quote]
Clearly, he wanted privacy when you started having relationship problems. You were dating — you aren’t married — it seems normal that he would be exploring other options if things aren’t going well with the two of you. I know that’s disappointing, but it’s logical. 😕 In fact, I think you already know the answer to the question you haven’t asked (Is he cheating?), but are trying to trick yourself into not believing the answer. 😳
[quote] Do you think he’s up to something, he gets disturbed when I see what he’s doing on his phone..but he doesnt like that im nosey but its ok for him to look into my phone?[/quote]
He’s been up to something, and it seems like your relationship has changed. The two of you no longer trust each other, and that’s the bigger problem here. Instead of getting into a tit for tat type of petty fight dynamic, decide what your future is with this man, and what kind of life you want for yourself and your daughter, then act on that decision. If you stay with him, you have to accept the infidelities, understand their origin and decide together what your future will look like. Easier said than done. 😉
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