Yes! You should be concerned. You’re 22 and he’s 24 and you’ve been dating for a year and are considering moving in together, but he wants to experience living on his own for a while first, and you’re wondering if living together is a smart idea. My advice is not to do it yet. There are plenty of relationship obstacles, so don’t create a big one by moving in together when he’s being clear and honest that he’d like to try living on his own for a while, first. If you move in together knowing he wants to live on his own, he may become resentful and the cohabitation will be short lived. Your relationship will be much stronger if you support his interests and wait for him to be ready. You don’t want to put yourself in a situation to fail any more than you want to put him in one. 😉
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