This has nothing to do with his being Arab or Muslim…. you’re kind of missing the point here. He’s married and has a child with his wife. That’s what you need to focus on. 😉 He could be from any country in the world, and practice any religion and that wouldn’t change the operative factor here: He’s married and you’re falling for him. If he was single, none of this would be an issue. But he’s not. The ball is in [i]your[/i] court here and you get to decide what happens next. If you want to date him, knowing he’s married and is not divorcing his wife, then you’re free to do so. But don’t pull the wool over your own eyes. 😕 He may tell you the two of you would have beautiful babies together, and that you’re his best friend, but that doesn’t change the bottom line here. If you want a relationship that leads to marriage, your best strategy is to date someone who’s single and interested in the same relationship goals.
I know this tough for you, and he flew under the radar because you met him at work, where lots of people meet relationship partners, but you have the responsibility to take care of yourself, and if you want to date a married man, he’s your guy. If you want to date a single man who is interested in marriage, then he’s not. Don’t try to distance yourself from what’s really going on by widening the scope to try and make this political or religious — it’s nether of those things. It’s very basic relationship stuff. I hope that helps!
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