Here is an update:
We have been together almost 8 months.
On Febuary 4th, my boyfriend and I broke up. He dumped me indirectly. Some of his actions made me believe he wasn’t sure about me. He asked me if I was to end it. I said, “No, but I can’t continue the relationship with someone who is unsure about me.” He said that he gets frustrated with me so easily and he doesn’t feel a strong connection with me like he used to and more and more he finds himself becoming a mean and upset person when he is around me. He said I am “super sweet but we are just not a healthy fit.” After that, I unfriended him on Facebook, but he still has the pics of us together on Facebook that I’m tagged in.
The break up was over text. I was just too upset to call him.
I have been using the No Contact method. What can I do to get him to miss me and try again? What can I do to make myself more appealing so he regrets his decision, and falls in love with me all over again? I just feel we need a break from eachother instead of him giving up on me completely. I want him to initiate contact, not me. In the meantime, I have been working on myself. I am going to get into shape. The problem manifested because of my poor social skills. I am going to see a therapist to figure out what I am doing wrong. I want him to see I have changed and give me another chance. I don’t want to find someone else.
Based on the information I gave you, what can I do, so that would make him miss me and give the relationship another try. I know this relationship is salvagable. The fact that I am Facebook friends with five of his friends, he is able to get updates about me. Can you give me tips what to post on my Facebook?
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