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14 yr olds relationship done, and im the one broken-hearted!

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    Cindyluv
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    My 14yr old was crushing on a boy all summer. They became friends and he asked her out ofcourse she said yes. But it didn’t last long. Hes a quiet, reserved boy with amazing manners, so he is easy to love! I thought he was great for my daughters first relationship.

    Since they broke up he’s asked her back twice and she rejected him. Though she cares about him she doesn’t want to date. It’s not what she thought it would be. Well he has been in depression and it hurts all of us. How do we help him? My daughter doesn’t know what to say or do. His parents have tried too. We’re all scared he may try to hurt himself.

    What can we do?

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    AskApril Masini
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    If you think a teenager is going to hurt himself, you should act responsibly and contact authorities who are better equipped to deal with serious events like this. You can call the police, a local hospital or the school.

    If he’s okay, and it sounds like your daughter is pretty clear on things, what may be hard to understand, but may help, is that the less contact she has with him, the better. She should be polite and kind, but if he’s got a crush on her, he may mistake anything she says or does as hope. And rejection is best dealt with and moved on from, rather than dangled about — even if she doesn’t realize she’s doing it.

    I hope this helps.

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