I am in a relationship with a a guy that is pretty much a dick. He says its all in fun but it is really starting to bother me. When we met he was really sweet but he has slowly become rude and condescending towards me and dismissive of my thoughts. He also gets really upset over stupid things, like i didn’t get out of his way in the right direction.
Recently i have been talking to a guy i knew in high school who was always sweet on me but i never saw him in a dating kinda way till now. Im getting tried of my current relationship only because my current boyfriend is the way he is and i dont think i can change him or he wants to be changed. He takes more interest in his motorcycle then me. I don’t necessarily want to end one relationship just to get into another one but i am really start to think the guy i knew in high school has more of an interest in me then my current boyfriend. Not to mention he talks to me in a much more positive way and i see him in a totally new way almost sexual. Im almost on the verge of just kissing him to see if there are even sparks.
I know the “the grass isn’t always greener on the other side” but any advise on what i should do?
If he loves his bike more than you, tell him to go on a date with his bike and stop chasing you. Saying “it’s all in fun” is a sign of a loser. He’s not going to change, and you’re not a repair shop that fixes bad boys.
AskApril is right when she says, “Why are you even with someone like that?” April Masini says that there’s no point in staying with this boyfriend, whether or not the other guy is in the scene. Move on.
