April, Not sure if you remember me, but I offered you some free tech advice if you ever need it. I have pretty much decided to divorce my cheating wife, living with her is killing me. But I am not sure what will happen with my daughter, I’m Going to ask for full time custody, and hope for half and half. But leaving her is going to be a real bitch. We own a house together, and have several thousand of dollars in C/C debt. Which I can not pay all of right now, but I have great credit and I hate to ruin it. Although I am thinking of bankruptcy once the divorce is over. My question is should I leave her, file for divorce, see where things land and then think of bankruptcy? Or just hit it all in one shot? Just so you know I am not trying to lay the boots to her mother, I just want to be a part of our daughters life because I don’t want to see her turn out like her mother. I fucked up and married the wrong woman, and I am paying for it now, big time. I just want my daughter to have a chance, and not think when her mom puts her on birth control it’s a license to go out and screw any guy she thinks is good looking, and says I love you. I am sorry if this sounds harsh, or one sided. But I am just trying to get my life on track and not feeling like I am a worthless piece of shit all the time.
Thanks for your time and any advise you can offer, BTW I know you are Married, But if you weren’t, I would through my hat in the ring any day.
