Hi April ,
I’m really in pain and confused right now, and I need your advice.
Miami is full of lights, noise, and people who look happy. But inside, I’ve been carrying a quiet heartbreak.
I met her three years ago. She flirted with me first. She had that smile that made you forget your worries. We started talking, laughing, teasing each other. It slowly turned into love.
We were in a relationship for three years.
I loved her deeply. Not just for her beauty, but for her mind, her little habits. I imagined a future with her. I believed she was my forever.
Then one day… she left.
No fight. No clear goodbye. She moved to Mexico. She talked to me once after that. Just one call. Her voice felt far away, like I was already in her past.
After that, she blocked me.
Everywhere.
I was left with memories and questions.
I kept checking my phone. I kept hoping she would come back. I kept asking myself what I did wrong. I still don’t know.
People tell me to move on. But they don’t understand. I didn’t just lose a girlfriend. I lost the person I planned my future with.
Sometimes I walk near the beach in Miami at night and think about her. About how she used to flirt with me. About how she used to say my name. About how she once made me feel special.
I wonder if I was real love to her… or just a phase.
I still love her. But I also feel hurt.
She is living her life in Mexico.
And I am here in Miami, learning how to live without her.
April, I really need your advice.
Should I keep hoping she will come back, or should I finally let her go?
How do I heal from someone who left without explaining anything?
I don’t know what to do yet.
But I know one thing — I loved her honestly.
And maybe one day, that love will finally stop hurting.