[caramelqueen12]

Is this true or false….absence from the person makes the heart grow fonder?
is this always true? i never seen it fail but situations were different for the reason. i had to pull away from a situation because the situation was big and i felt the person needed space again. im so use to him coming back but this feel just different. we stay 2 hrs from each other so i rarely get to see him now….until college in the fall. he throw signs at me that he need space but most of the time idk if its real or not he never keep wat he says but at least he know he wrong now its all anger but he act like a stone guy.i just believe in this because of space and we wasnt together we just started off as friends and we made a mistake by trying something new which now ruined future things that could have been now. now we both regret it. he act as a stoned heart guy with no feelings but he does. i cant believe anything he say because he havent meant any of it lol its like he cant stick to his words. right now is attitudes hes givng me clues to push back so i have. I havent talked to him in about 3 no text nor call no nothing. he usually comes back whenever we have problems regardless of whether we was together or not. but whenever i does this i do it on my own cuz i see space is needed but with a big situation knowing he is mad with guilt and feeling bad its hard to tell cause im so use to him coming back after problems. he forgave me so many times but this time this the mistake we both made and things feel very different.it hurts not knowing the outcome. i really like and love this guy before all this happened i didnt have to ask for anything he was just that nice of a guy before our poor choice. he just all attitude right now he hollerrs he dont wanna have anything to do with me anymore. it was a term called cuddy buddy that was the wrong decision because we both didnt want a relationship. if we havent chose this we would been together right now. i already have heard he didnt want a relationship with me over and over but his actions shows different. im only scared. it hruts not to know the outcome. now we both regretting. this guy been trying to get my attention for 3 years i use to always pull back and he kept trying anyways and anyhow. im glad he did too. i was just scared to talk to him. now we both realize that having sex sex sex wasnt the best thing to do because we wasnt together now he says he feel sad guilty and bad like i do. he knows me better than anyone else he knows how i txt and everything. he reads my mind alot idk how many guys can do that. we like and agree on too much of anything because we both like everything in sex and other categories in decision making

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Absence does not always make the heart grow fonder. Sometimes it makes the distance seem like a good idea that should be permanent.

It sounds like the man you’re describing isn’t interested in you any more. It also sounds like this relationship had some fatal relationship errors as it’s basis.

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