The fact that he won’t respond to your concern about STDs makes him sound guilty. 😕 It would be easy for him to say that no, he doesn’t have any, or didn’t have any. It’s a lot more difficult for him to admit that he put your health at risk, because he feels guilty and badly about it, and so he’s staying silent to avoid those feelings. But even if he did admit it, you’d still have to go to a doctor — which is really the best thing for you to do. So, make an appointment with your doctor or a health clinic, and go and be honest with the medical care providers about your relationships and what you heard and ask for help getting tested for everything and if you do have something, then treat it medically. Lastly, don’t go to his wife. That’s just creating drama that isn’t necessary. I know you’re mad at him, but the most important thing right now is your health, so go get tested and take care of the real business at hand — not the drama.
