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Advice on working things out after a 5 month break up?

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    KRISTENROSE
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    Hi,

    My boyfriend and I have been together now going on 3 years and we had broken up for about 5 months and just recently got together. We have found it a little difficult because sometimes each of us will talk about a time when we were not together and the other person gets upset. We both really want this to work out because we really do love each other dearly, can anyone please advise some ideas on improving our relationship and learning how to trust one another more. Any advise is appreciated!

    Thanks!

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    AskApril Masini
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    It’s too soon for the two of you to be talking about what you did without each other during your break up. This is the time to heal and mend the rift that separated you. When you have more mutual trust and more good experiences together since this new reunion, you’ll both be more understanding of your having been living separate lives during the break up. Because you’d been together for so long prior to the break up, you’re both trying to get right back together at the place you left off when you broke up. But that’s not going to happen. This reunion requires some delicate handling of each other and an understanding and maturity that when you were broken up, you were not cheating on each other — you were living your lives. 😉

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